Those who hurt us is all about what that person is going through, and what battle they are having internally both in the mind and in their heart. ~ Wanda Arroyo
Maturity is accepting full responsibility for my actions/behavior and not blame others for my choices that have formed my reality. ~ Mary Davison
You know an understanding doesn’t necessarily have to be with the offender. It can be one with yourself, that their situation is that your relationship is just not worth the drama of hurting them back.
The wisdom of maturity, sets you free from the need to react. Accepting that when someone hurts you, they do not have the power to hurt you, you choose to feel hurt. Their bad behaviour is their issue to solve. ~ Caitriona Doran
You don’t have to hurt back because I have seen it so many times that what comes around also goes around right back to them. ~ Barbara Prete
Maturity doesn’t mean to have to continue to bend over backwards for those who are so selfish that continue to take and hurt. This time I choose to forgive without an apology but I also choose to move on and let go. ~ Saireva Jakob
When you try to understand why you feel hurt before you blame someone else for your feeling to understand if they really abused you (physically, sexually, psychologically, socially, etc.) or if you are just being jealous, prejudice, demanding something unreasonable, not respecting their boundaries or right to say no, etc. or even misinterpreting the situation. ~ Mari Cammarata
We don’t necessarily have to confront them but coming to terms with ourselves that there could be an underlying reason why this person is lashing out. They could be fighting their own battle or they could use more compassion towards others. Some people are just downright rude but why be like them. Your right, walk away. ~ Umm Firas
It depends on what the hurt is/how they hurt you. For those who would delight in hurting me for their own personal gain or because they actually enjoy it, there’s nothing to understand about that and I wouldn’t waste my time trying to hurt them either as they wouldn’t be worth my time. ~ Elaine Beesley
Hurting them back only means that both of you hurt then, and you caused them hurt. If you love someone you will do all you can to never intentionally cause them pain, even if they have caused you unbearable pain at times, you would rather cut out your own heart than to hurt them. In short, true love doesn’t seek it’s own, rather it seeks the best for the other always. It doesn’t matter in the long run what they may do to you, what really matters is what you about it. You don’t have to put up with their stuff, you can just walk away, and if that hurts them, then they only have themselves to blame, but never hurt back if you truly love them ~ Frank Hancock
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