Never allow loneliness to drive you back

Never allow loneliness to drive to any place, in any way you don’t want to be.

Never count on someone else to make you happy or keep you from feeling lonely, but live to the fullest, regardless if you are married or single. Never lose yourself in someone else, but be proud of who you are and use all your talents and gifts to make the world around you beautiful. Joy flows from within and spills out for all to see. ~ Linda Enger

The best relationship is when you two can act like lovers and best friends. It’s when you have more playful moments than serious moments. It’s when you can joke around, let each other have piggy backs, have unexpected hugs and random kisses. It’s when you two give each other that specific stare and just smile. It’s when you’ll rather stay in to watch movies, eat junk food and cuddle, than go out all the time. It’s when you’ll stay up all night just to settle your arguments and problems. It’s when you can completely act yourself and they can still love you for who you are.

Sometimes you think you belong to each other and seal it with the blissful marriage but after decades one will belong to another person and no matter how hard both try it will never be the same. Loneliness is perceived by different people at different level of being alone, we are all unique in our own special way. What is loneliness to you might be my special space of serenity, tranquillity. They say that in order to get over someone is to go under another person which will end up the same way so back to square one. Who are you to tell who someone will belong to, what is assured future to you as you look at it in a few years you will be the lonely one going back to the arms of someone you don’t belong with. ~ Norma Powell

Some people are very afraid of loneliness. If they knew how strong they are if not controlled by others, if they just believed in themselves, they would be so much better off, so much happier, but “they do not see it”. ~ Maria Rego

Stop making excuses. If someone wanted to be in your life, they would never settle for second best. ~ Helen Lewis

Don’t look in the rear view, look forward.

You are even more alone with the wrong person than you are by yourself. At least when you are by yourself you have the possibility your soul mate will come along. ~ Debbie Parry

I would rather be alone then to settle for someone that I was not in love with.

If that happened the mind would truly be lost forever in the depths of despair and discouragement. Why go back to someone who hurt you? Hug a pillow, talk to a great friend, get a puppy, just don’t return to your rejects. ~ Pamela Nikodem