Sometimes we have to avoid situations and negative people in our lives for our sanity and peace of mind!
Do some overtime at work.. Go to the movies. Get involved in community activities. Switch your phone off. Use the “delete” button for it’s intended purpose. Go on a holiday and don’t tell anyone where. See the pattern? Live your own life. If anyone asks why you’re never available, then you are too busy. Too busy having a good time, that’s it! ~ Arnie Schaaij
Stop being available to them and find other social things that will keep you busy or you can speak your truth to them and if they ignore you then ignore them for while until they miss you. I cut all ties with my mothers siblings and I do not hold negative family in my life. Forgive their ignorance and forge a life of your own. ~ Damon Edwards