Forgiving is forgetting. Although it may not be easy, but when you learn to forget that means you are at peace and you will be able to move on. ~ Celia Lieck
It still hurts when you decide to move on but all the time effort of giving your everything for nothing, but like everyone has said its hard to forgive and forget. It takes a lot of strength to move on. With the thoughts of wasted time. You can’t take it back then it takes away from someone who deserves it. ~ Kathleen Cadigan
There is no doubt that the actions of others can be hurtful, often without any reason or logic that you can see. But one way to interpret ‘forgiving yourself for allowing others to hurt you’ is by the idea that you are 100% responsible for your reaction to the situations and circumstances of your life. Nobody can dictate that for you and therefore, if you wanted to, you could choose a different reaction to the situation. Maybe one that contains less hurt and negative emotion and therefore make the situation less of a negative experience. Taking responsibility for your life means understanding that you do actually have that choice. ~ Blair Robinson
How is it that I am able to forgive others. So much easier than I forgive myself for the things that I have allowed others to put me through. I seem to reason with what I have done, than to see what it is at time. So putting it out on yourself you may never come up with the real solution . And in the end it continues over and over. I think stand tall, move forward. The only one that is to judge us is God. As long as we walk in his image the best we can or know how. As long as our awareness and intentions are not to hurt or harm others. We are ok. We learn as we live with each individual it is different. No one deserves. ~ Joan Sparks
