Until someone has walked a mile in my shoes you don’t have a right to judge. I’ve been through a lot in my life. I can handle things better now so we are who we are for what we have been through. ~ Elizabeth Jimenez
Sometimes we have gone through some trauma that made us act differently or rather weirdly in the eyes of others, but they only understand if they know the reason behind it. ~ Josephine Angelynn
Sometimes judging someone could mean fight with our own demons. It’s hard for both sides. There are always reasons and reasons, but if there is love in the case, then we just need sometime to calm, to forgive and to love again. Judging is useless thing to do. ~ Ven Kosta
Sometimes, the only thing we can give to a person is our ear to use to listen and a heart to be accepting of such person’s predicament, non-judgmental in our conclusion and then a prayer to offer to uplift a person. That is what we must do. A person might just need to hear the “other side of the coin” of his issue. I have been there a few times and the most help I can remember is when a person is just there with her “ears” open. Re-direction, re-focus. Often times we are so focused on one point, nothing else matters until someone points out that there is indeed another side to an issue. Do they teach us this in school. Perhaps, I learned mine from my mom who always said, ” Always give a helping hand. Do not point your fingers and accuse a person if you haven’t heard the whole issue. Foremost, don’t judge, there maybe mitigating factors.” My Mom had always given someone a second chance. I think that is what we should do. Give second chances. This will make us happier people, a more peaceful relationships. ~ Leticia Carbonell
