It is hard when people give up or don’t care anymore. One day you existed now you do not. Our value is not determined by them. It is indeed their loss. But we must forgive, let go and move on. We will always care and love those people who leave or show they do not care we are in their lives. But we know our focus can’t be on what is not but what is. I have been one to always welcome anyone back open arms and new start. I have learned though sometimes distance is best in some cases even though painful because some intentions are not good and though we forgive, give those chances sometimes growth can only come apart. They have to decide to value you, improve negative behaviors and see that while you are not perfect. Make mistakes that you were sincere. You cared. You tried. They gave up. They showed: they didn’t care. Celebrate those in your life and focus on them. Love from a distance but move on, forgive. Let healing begin! ~ Angela Muchmore
It’s much better to stay with someone and live a meaningless existence, faking affection until all memory of what was once genuine feeling is poisonous. Leaving someone because it was the right thing for both people takes courage, knowingly destroying someone you used to love – hurts but its about respect, belief they deserve more the deceit and despite feeling like the worst person in the world, the person leaving deserve better as well. It is never black and white, ever. ~ Vicky Jones
